DEAR ANN: I HAVE DEALTH WITH YOUR STALKERS AND NOW NEED TO CONFRONT YOU: THIS IS NO FANTASY

10/17/2008 7:25:24 PM

Okay what about these dinners? Were you starving? The more you avoid it and the longer you avoid it, the worse it gets. What were the dates and why? You been raped, jot down who you had dinner with and why, when, and where. I am not happy you are no mystery to nobody at all and they like you very much and watch you jerk off in bed. The more you avoid it, the worse it gets. If you even say Bush I will punch you. Where is he now? Did he fight off your stalkers? Who did and you want to say his name like a Saint? I am really getting mad with you. Complain about not being able to respond okay. I need you to clear this up and tell me if you can be a good spouse and why. This is getting very serious and very disturbing, before it was a game now it is near rape and a dumb subordinate. This is no game. This is no fantasy.

Ann is beginning to become very annoying because she justifies what she does as doing it for us. However, I am kept in the dark, she was never asked to do it, and insists that dinner, drinks and social events are for us. Starving and greedy, it is not. There are limits to lying. We had financial problems before and I was imprisoned and unhealthy for six years. She was never asked to and was likes to sneak around and lie about it whether or not she is guilty or not. She ignores lots of things and claims she is not doing anything wrong while begging, pouting, and keeps insisting it is for us.

Can she stop herself? I have asked her to stop and she comes back and says it is for us and I gave up. I am too frustrated with dealing with her and her never explaining or having so much to explain. I cannot have this in my life and it growing. It has been nothing but stalkers and deranged fans. Every single day with Ann the topic and the conversation is stalkers and deranged fans and what it will take to beat them down today so they do not watch her undressing. Now they claim she is no mystery and is done so we can talk. They did not leave or behind bars, just we can now talk. My friends or her friends?

Now I have to deal with all the stalkers and the insult of what they said about how they were done with her now and her saying she did it for us. Do you see my frustration? So I had to ask her, do you have to go to dinner and have drinks with these guys even if you are with me? It feels like you are dealing with a subordinate and a stupid 40 something stupid bitch that is stuck in some lifestyle she does not wish to give up. So I am not going to fight more stalkers and have more problems with this; I am tired of it and hearing them say they were done with her now and I could talk to her was the last straw. I let her explain when and if she wants to respond. She has not and she is slow to respond. She professes her love almost like an obsession and death if it ends. You are allowed to respond and tell the truth; this is not a threat or some extortion tactic. I never knew we were at war, scared of wrath, who Ann? Never. I have told Ann and made it clear to her in High School, I am only interested in marriage and family, only. I am not interested in anything else or making things work, I need a good spouse and partner for that to work.

Some advice okay Ann, when the other person is trying as hard as they can to be a good spouse, it helps to be one also. When someone says do you have to do this or that and you say it is for us, it does not look good no matter what happened, how many stalkers, or what the problem really is. Is she a victim? She claims in frustration it is because of her career and being a pundit which caused this. I have had to ask her and did not blame her because she has not explained and said she was crushed by what I said. She does not think or feel she is doing anything wrong. I can handle the truth but Ann is having problems with it. I even told her if she said “Bush” around me I would punch her in the mouth. That is how mad and how frustrated I am with this rape and stalker problem or asking her if she wishes to be a good spouse. If she does not want to be a good spouse, she will not be one either. She insists it is not over with us but resorts to crying and pouting hysterically, she does do this. It is very frustrating, very trust me, it feels like a very dumb subordinate. Being unfaithful was never an issue but the frustration continues on and she needs desperately to address this immediately. I never planned on sticking around and I did not, I was made to look desperate, so I left. Now I am frustrated with the solution from Ann.